February 27th, 2009

One of the more enjoyable activities I was assigned when I taught was that of supervising pre-kindergarteners and kindergarteners on the play ground. Now some people might find that strange. After all who wants to be out there on cold windy days or on hot stifling days with all those kids?
I found that I learned a lot about children and their development on the playground. This unstructured time was a golden opportunity to observe how well children could problem solve, be imaginative, be accepting of children who were different than they and how well they could handle the social emotional demands of being in a group of children.
To me, social emotional development is a key component to a child’s ability to succeed in the early years of school and beyond. While some people might believe it is their ability to learn to read or do math problem solving, I would strongly disagree.
Social emotional development is a strong indicator of a child’s ability to sustain attention and compete with his peers. A child should to be growing adequately in this area so they can succeed. Now what does social emotional development have to do with a child’s success? Plenty.
Social emotional development is the ability of a child to relate with his peers and the adults in his life. While this area is looked at as one domain of development, it is actually divided into two key parts – social and emotional development. A child who is able to express himself in an appropriate manner emotionally will be able to get his needs more fully met. Basic emotions of happiness, sadness, anger and fear and learning to express and regulate these emotions can determine how well a child is accepted by his peers and teachers. When children are not able to express themselves in an appropriate manner the consequences can be dire. If a child is working on a group project and someone does not let him have is way, the child might react adversely – sometimes with anger. Or the child who is not able to regulate emotions of excitement and happiness may have problems transitioning from the playground to classroom. When this happens, he is at risk for not being able to absorb key information the teacher may be presenting right after recess. This puts him behind his peers. So regulation of emotions, which develops with age, becomes a problem.
Socially, a child who is developing normally will be able to establish relationships with peers and teachers. These relationships will enable him to grow and learn. A child who can successfully interact with peers and adults feels comfortable asking questions, expressing opinions and getting information he needs to understand what is being taught. When observing children in kindergarten classrooms, the level of inquisitiveness is so exciting! But the child who is not socially able to keep up with his peers begins to lag behind in getting his needs met and learning important information.
Children of kindergarten age can be so open to others, showing empathy for companions and even strangers. When children are able to comprehend empathy and relationships, they are able to learn better in the classroom. Children who have developed these skills can relate to characters in books, to others during play time and characters in story problems with ease. After all, relating to a character’s emotions in a story helps us to understand what that character may be feeling or even how he will solve a problem.
The skills in the area of social emotional development are interdependent. Children who have difficulty with these, especially in the early years, are put at a disadvantage when competing with their peers. If they are not at the same level in this development, they run the threat of being isolated and developing behaviors that put them at risk in later years.
What can parents to do to help in this area of development? It is important for parents to recognize that this area is as critical as the academic areas. Too often the emphasis is placed on academics rather than looking at the child as a whole. Research has indicated that children develop in this area very rapidly through the preschool years. These social emotional skills are learned in good quality group programs such as preschool and pre-kindergarten programs. Observe your child in play situations. Look to see if he is ready to compete with others his age in this key area of development.

Enough Practice?

January 28th, 2009

Recently I made a trip alone for the first time in months. As always, the drive was punctuated with stops to stretch my legs, get refreshments and to listen to my favorite CD’s in the car. I spent time having lunch with a family member in the city and did some visiting of others before heading out for the last leg of the trip. Now this is a city that I grew up in and I learned to drive there. You would think that I knew my way around, especially the freeway system. There is only one interchange and it certainly is not complicated. However, a major renovation was completed on it a couple of years ago – adding lanes to make life easier for drivers – or so it would seem. As I came to the interchange I was sure I was in the right lane when off the path I veered. I exited when I should have just made a gentle turn. I felt so silly. I could hear my 23 year old daughter telling me as she has the last five times I drove on this exchange, “No, Mom, stay in this lane!” But I didn’t so I had to find my way around several blocks to get back on the freeway to head out of town. Why couldn’t I remember which lane to stay in? I decided it boiled down to the fact that I hadn’t done it enough. Remember the saying “practice makes perfect”? This holds true for more than music lessons and sports. It is true for all the learning we do in our lives regardless if we are children or “mature” adults.

When I talked about RTI in the last article, I explained that it was a systematic approach to resolving student learning issues before they become a problem. In the first level of RTI, after identifying students who are not performing as their peers, the teacher implements strategies to try and close the gap so that students can move forward. But the question begs to be asked, how do students get behind their peers in academic subjects?

Just like my solo driving experience and getting lost, some students just haven’t done the practice enough to be able to negotiate the freeway of learning. Learning takes so many twists and turns but we know that in order to get to the end destination, we have to master the basic information. If, for some reason, the student hasn’t mastered the information then it is hard to take the interchange to move to the next level.

The next question to ask is why does this happen? There are many reasons- absences, changes in schools or others but for the most part there is really so much for students to learn in one year, they often don’t have time to practice enough during school. They must do that at home. While it is hard for parents to implement the strategies at home there are things they can do. However, with students involved in so many activities and families just trying to keep their heads above the water with all the demands placed on their time, it is hard to accomplish this.

That’s why it’s important for parents and teachers to take advantage of teachable moments. What is a teachable moment? It’s taking advantage of those times when you are with your child to reinforce the learning taking place at school. Watch any parent of a toddler in the grocery store and you will learn what this is. I observed one the other day asking her toddler if they should get the cookies in the red box or the green box. What a way to practice colors! Another example, after picking up your child from school you need to go to the bank. This time would be great to have your kids identify words in signs they see on the road or at the bank. If they are very young, just have them pick out letters they know. Stopping by the local fast food restaurant on the way home would be a great time to practice reading money amounts or doing addition or subtraction in their head. By capitalizing on this time, parents become partners with teachers in making sure that students have done enough practice. Teachers are naturals at capitalizing on time when students are in line or on the playground to give additional practice. I have seen many teachers infuse learning into everything that happens in a child’s day at school. Parents can do the same thing. It doesn’t have to be just about books and papers, learning takes place everywhere. At least for some of us! I am bound and determined to conquer that interchange yet!

When Learning Becomes a Struggle

December 30th, 2008

At some point or another, most students experience times when they struggle with learning concepts in the core subjects- reading, math, and writing.  How much they struggle and whether it becomes a lifelong learning problem depends, for the most part, on how we as teachers and parents address it.

As parents and teachers, it is important that we act as soon as we suspect a problem is occurring.  We need to question the specifics of the problem.  What subject does the student seem to be struggling with?  Once that is identified, which can be done easily by looking at the student's performance, we need to determine what the problem might be and how to solve it.

One controversial component of No Child Left Behind is that of ongoing assessment.  The reason it is controversial is that teachers and parents feel it takes time away from learning.  But it is through this continued assessment that teachers find out if children are experiencing difficulty and are able to address problem areas.  For example, in the area of reading, a student may begin to struggle with understanding what he is reading.  Assessment should help determine if the student is understanding vocabulary at grade level or if he is able to read passages at that level.  Specific instruction in the area of vocabulary may be necessary so that he can understand what he is reading.  Determining if the breakdown is the result of instruction or if a learning problem exists is critical to helping the student.

Once teachers have specific information they will be able to implement strategies to improve student performance in the area of need.  Strategies are simply the way that teachers choose to teach the students.  For accountability purposes, teachers should be keeping a detailed record of what strategies have been implemented with the student and how successful that strategy has been.  This information should be shared with parents and administrators during conference times.  These notes will help all persons involved with the student be able to determine what the areas of need are, what works and what needs to be done to improve the student's performance.

For students who do not seem to respond to strategies implemented by the classroom teacher, each school should have in place a system of increasing levels of remediation for the student.  This system is currently being referred to as Response to Intervention or RTI.  RTI takes place in three stages.  The first being strategies that the teacher implements in the classroom.  The classroom teacher, using sound instructional and researched based practices, will try to close the gaps students are experiencing with a given subject.  These strategies will be tried for a period of time to see if the student responds to the instruction.  If notes and documentation kept by the teacher shows that the student is still struggling, the student can be placed in the next stage of intervention.  Typically this stage involves small group intensive instruction using strategies to address the area the student is struggling in.  The last step would be one to one instruction with the focus on the area of need.

All of these stages of remediation should be shared with the parents and documented by the teacher.  In this way, parents can act as partners with teachers.  For example, suppose a student is having difficulty with sight words.  Having enough sight words is critical to reading information and stories fluently.  Once the teacher determines what the student needs to know and how to teach that student the necessary sight words, parents can become partners in the process.  Parents can be responsible for drill and practice of the words at home or of making sure the student pre-reads the material to look for known and unknown sight words, practicing those words in isolation and then reading the story of material assigned to the student.  If parents are given the strategy the teacher is using to help remediate the problem, they can use that same strategy at home.  The more often a student receives instruction and reinforcement of the strategy, the greater chance there is of closing the learning gap.  This process works for all subjects, not just reading, but math and and writing also.  This way parents and teachers become partners in the learning process.

Parents and Teachers As Partners

November 14th, 2008

When your children are in school the one thing you can count on in the Fall and Spring are the annual Parent/Teacher conference days. Do you look forward to them or do you dread them? As a parent I was always eager to hear what teachers had to tell me about my children, but in the back of my mind there was always some worry. Was I doing everything I needed to do to help my children in school? Are they following through with assignments? What if they are failing?

As a teacher, conferences centered on the same types of concerns as well as trying to develop a sense of being a partner with parents in the student's education. Getting ready for the conference, I spent time reflecting on each child in my room and determining what points I felt were most important to our discussion of the child's progress. I made sure I had all the important information I needed to share with the parents.

What can parents do to make sure that conferences are informative and successful? Parents too can spend time reflecting on their child and what questions or concerns they may have regarding what is happening in the classroom. As a parent, you know your child and can be a great source of information for the teacher.

It's important that conferences be as productive as possible due to the short time allotted, usually around 20 minutes. To get ready for the conference, a parent can write down points they would like to see discussed. Things that might concern parents are how the child is progressing, are they on grade level, is my child's behavior acceptable, is my child making friends and getting along socially?

Parents should be prepared to share with the teacher important information about things that may be happening at home. Teachers are not trying to be nosy about personal situations but what happens at home can affect a child's performance at school. It is possible to answer questions and give information without sharing a lot of personal details.

Additional things that parents might consider asking about are what the teacher's expectations are for the classroom and if their child is having any difficulties with academics, socially or with behavior.

Teachers want to discuss these topics with parents also. They may bring up such things as absences or missing work. It is important that parents check work that has been sent home so they have an idea as to what the teacher is talking about. A child who misses a lot of school or who is not turning in homework will suffer the consequences.

A child's school attendance may become a topic for the conference. Attendance will determine if that child will be successful with what is being taught. Studies have shown that students who attend school regularly are able to achieve at a higher academic rate than those who miss many days. Parents can make sure their children remain healthy and get to school.

Organization at home may also be a part of the conference. Getting children organized so they turn in their homework is important for school success. Taking an active role in helping a child become organized will ensure that paperwork for school is turned in and in later years this will be rewarded with the child being able to take care of these things himself.

Sometimes conflicts occur between teachers and parents. As a teacher, I worked hard to make sure the parent knew I had the child's best interest at heart. Parents become protective of their children when they hear stories of injustices the child reports to have suffered at school. Going into the conference with an open mind and realizing that only one side of the story has been heard will help parents determine if a problem exists.

I have always felt that parents truly do want to do the best they can for their children. Parents want children to succeed in school, so partnering with your child's teacher is something parents can do to ensure success. When children know that parents and teachers are communicating positively and are working together, they have a more positive attitude towards school. Today's parents are stressed with many things taking their time and energy. Teachers realize this and want to help any way they can to make sure the student is successful in their classroom.

Can Play and School Achievement Go Together?

October 24th, 2008

Have you ever wondered if recess time in the schools could be used to better increase your child's academic ability? Is recess really important or just a waste of precious teaching time?

Until the passage of No Child Left Behind (NCLB), most elementary students, parents and teachers took recess for granted in school. Time left over in the school day or instructional period was not questioned if the teacher chose to give students time to work on art projects. With NCLB, the government turned up the heat on schools to achieve testing standards or to face severe penalties for not performing. Students who do not enter the school system with the same set of skills as their peers require more intense and longer instruction in order to meet the testing performance required in today's system. Plus all students are spending more time in the school day mastering requirements in the core subjects. Sometimes in an effort to make sure that students meet these requirements, schools have to cut back on other subjects or school activities. One area that schools are using to create more time in the school day is recess. Does this reduction of time to play have an effect on students? Is play or recess time important or is it expendable?

Play helps us develop many of the skills we need to help us learn to thrive in the world. Besides our parents, play is our first teacher.

During play children develop problem solving skills. For example, a young girl is serving dinner to her 3 stuffed animals but she only has enough food for 2. What should she do? Problem solving skills that start out as simple as this become more difficult the older a child gets.

Play also stimulates a child's creativity to use materials in new ways. Using a box for a car or making a tent from blankets are creative ways to use new materials. How many inventions have been discovered because someone found a new way to use materials?

Playing games allows a child to learn sharing and turn-taking. They also learn how to establish relationships through negotiation and conflict-resolution.

Playing on the playground, or physical play, allows children to develop muscle strength. Gross and fine motor strength and expanding lung capacity are just three ways that physical strength is developed. Having stamina to keep up with learning is extremely important. Physical coordination helps a child with writing and reading skills because they have control over those muscles.

From the moment children are born, they begin to interact with their world. This interaction comes in the form of play. Play develops our thinking skills. With that development, language develops. Play gives children the opportunity to play with language, use and understand language. Without the time to play with objects and people, students become limited in their use of language. This limitation keeps children from entering school on an equal footing with other children their age. Lack of language skills requires intense remediation.

How can parents ensure that children have enough time to play?

Parents can engage children in play activities that involve language such as reading stories, singing songs, and playing rhyming games. Pair words with actions such as "catch the ball" or "throw the ball". Using words to describe daily actions and play activities gives the child a head start on understanding words which teachers will later expect children to know and understand in school. For a child whose first language is not English, parents need to help their child develop skills in their native language first before introducing a second language.

At school, if you find that your child is spending a lot of time without play or recess, talk to the teacher to find out why. Interactions with other children are extremely important especially in the primary grades. Children should have some time to experience unstructured play and develop interactions with their peers.

At home, make sure your child has time to play. Give them some breathing space between school and homework. But children who watch a lot of TV or who play lots of video games do not develop needed play skills. These activities are limited in the vocabulary they expose children to and children do not get the give and take of interacting with others.

Working together, parents and teachers can improve student academic skills while providing adequate time to play and develop needed school skills.